Life purpose
WITH PURPOSE
This is more than a book; it is a guide to a 40-day spiritual
journey that will enable you to discover the answer to life’s most
important question: What on earth am I here for? By the end of
this journey you will know God’s purpose for your life and will
understand the big picture—how all the pieces of your life fit
together. Having this perspective will reduce your stress, simplify
your decisions, increase your satisfaction, and, most important,
prepare you for eternity.
Your Next 40 Days
Today the average life span is 25,550 days. That’s how long
you will live if you are typical. Don’t you think it would be a wise
use of time to set aside 40 of those days to figure out what God
wants you to do with the rest of them?
The Bible is clear that God considers 40 days a spiritually
significant time period. Whenever God wanted to prepare
someone for his purposes, he took 40 days
Noah’s life was transformed by 40 days of rain.
• Moses was transformed by 40 days on Mount Sinai.
• The spies were transformed by 40 days in the Promised Land.
• David was transformed by Goliath’s 40-day challenge.
• Elijah was transformed when God gave him 40 days of
strength from a single meal.
• The entire city of Nineveh was transformed when God gave
the people 40 days to change.
• Jesus was empowered by 40 days in the wilderness.
• The disciples were transformed by 40 days with Jesus after
his resurrection.
The next 40 days will transform your life.
This book is divided into 40 brief chapters. I strongly urge you
to read only one chapter a day, so you will have time to think about
the implications for your life. The Bible says, “Let God transform
you into a new person by changing the way you think. Then you will
know what God wants you to do.”
One reason most books don’t transform us is that we are so
eager to read the next chapter, we don’t pause and take the time
to seriously consider what we have just read. We rush to the next
truth without reflecting on what we have learned.
Don’t just read this book. Interact with it. Underline it.
Write your own thoughts in the margins. Make it your book.
Personalize it! The books that have helped me most are the ones
that I reacted to, not just read.
Four Features to Help You
At the end of each chapter is a section called “Thinking about
My Purpose.” There you will find:
• A Point to Ponder. This is a nugget of truth that summarizes
a principle of purpose-driven living that you can reflect on
throughout your day. Paul told Timothy, “Reflect on what I
am saying, for the Lord will give you insight into all this.A Verse to Remember. This is a Bible verse that teaches a
truth from that chapter. If you really want to improve your
life, memorizing Scripture may be the most important habit
you can begin. You can either copy these verses onto small
cards to carry with you, or purchase a Purpose-Driven® Life
Scripture Keeper Plus.
• A Question to Consider. These questions will help you
think about the implications of what you have read and how
it applies to you personally. Let me encourage you to write
your answers in the margin of this book or in a notebook, or
obtain a copy of The Purpose-Driven Life Journal, a
companion book designed for this purpose. Writing down
your thoughts is the best way to clarify them.
In appendix 1 you will find:
• Discussion Questions. I strongly urge you to get one or
more friends to join you in reading this book during the
next 40 days. A journey is always better when it is shared.
With a partner or a small reading group you can discuss what
you read and bounce ideas off each other. This will help you
grow stronger and deeper spiritually. Real spiritual growth is
never an isolated, individualistic pursuit. Maturity is
produced through relationships and community.
The best way to explain God’s purpose for your life is to allow
the Scripture to speak for itself, so in this book the Bible is
quoted extensively, using over a thousand different verses from
fifteen English translations and paraphrases. I have varied the
versions used for several important reasons, which I explain in
appendix 3.
I Have Been Praying for You
As I wrote this book, I often prayed that you would experience
the incredible sense of hope, energy, and joy that comes fromdiscovering what God put you on this planet to do. There’s
nothing quite like it. I am excited because I know all the great
things that are going to happen to you. They happened to me,
and I have never been the same since I discovered the purpose of
my life.
Because I know the benefits, I want to challenge you to stick
with this spiritual journey for the next 40 days, not missing a
single daily reading. Your life is worth taking the time to think
about it. Make it a daily appointment on your schedule. If you
will commit to this, let’s sign a covenant together. There is
something significant about signing your name to a commitment.
If you get a partner to read through this with you, have him or
her sign it, too. Let’s get started together!
WHAT ON EARTH
AM I HERE FOR?
Blessed are those who trust in the Lord. . . .
They are like trees planted along a riverbank, with
roots that reach deep into the water. Such trees
are not bothered by the heat or worried by long
months of drought. Their leaves stay green,
and they go right on producing delicious frui
It All Starts with God For everything, absolutely everything,
above and below, visible and invisible, . . .
everything got started in him and
finds its purpose in him.
Colossians 1:16 (Msg)
Unless you assume a God, the question
of life’s purpose is meaningless.
Bertrand Russell, atheist
It’s not about you.
The purpose of your life is far greater than your own personal
fulfillment, your peace of mind, or even your happiness. It’s far
greater than your family, your career, or even your wildest dreams
and ambitions. If you want to know why you were placed on this
planet, you must begin with God. You were born by his purpose
and for his purpose.
The search for the purpose of life has puzzled people for
thousands of years. That’s because we typically begin at the
wrong starting point—ourselves. We ask self-centered questions
like What do I want to be? What should
I do with my life? What
are my goals, my ambitions, my dreams for my future? But
focusing on ourselves will never reveal our life’s purpose. TheBible says, “It is God who directs the lives of his creatures; everyone’s
life is in his power.” 1
Contrary to what many popular books, movies, and seminars
tell you, you won’t discover your life’s meaning by looking
within yourself. You’ve probably
tried that already. You didn’t create
yourself, so there is no way you
can tell yourself what you were
created for! If I handed you an
invention you had never seen
before, you wouldn’t know its
purpose, and the invention itself wouldn’t be able to tell you
either. Only the creator or the owner’s manual could reveal its
purpose.
I once got lost in the mountains. When I stopped to ask for
directions to the campsite, I was told, “You can’t get there from
here. You must start from the other side of the mountain!” In the
same way, you cannot arrive at your life’s purpose by starting with
a focus on yourself. You must begin with God, your Creator. You
exist only because God wills that you exist. You were made by
God and for God—and until you understand that, life will never
make sense. It is only in God that we discover our origin, our
identity, our meaning, our purpose, our significance, and our
destiny. Every other path leads to a dead end.
Many people try to use God for their own self-actualization,
but that is a reversal of nature and is doomed to failure. You
were made for God, not vice versa, and life is about letting God
use you for his purposes, not your using him for your own
purpose. The Bible says, “Obsession with self in these matters is a
dead end; attention to God leads us out into the open, into a
spacious, free life.” 2
I have read many books that suggest ways to discover the
purpose of my life. All of them could be classified as “self-help”
books because they approach the subject from a self-centeredviewpoint. Self-help books, even Christian ones, usually offer the
same predictable steps to finding your life’s purpose: Consider
your dreams. Clarify your values. Set some goals. Figure out what
you are good at. Aim high. Go for it! Be disciplined. Believe you
can achieve your goals. Involve others. Never give up.
Of course, these recommendations often lead to great success.
You can usually succeed in reaching a goal if you put your mind
to it. But being successful and fulfilling your life’s purpose are not
at all the same issue! You could reach all your personal goals,
becoming a raving success by the world’s standard, and still miss
the purposes for which God created you. You need more than
self-help advice. The Bible says, “Self-help is no help at all. Self-
sacrifice is the way, my way, to finding yourself, your true self.” 3
This is not a self-help book. It is not about finding the right
career, achieving your dreams, or planning your life. It is not about
how to cram more activities into an overloaded schedule. Actually,
it will teach you how to do less in life—by focusing on what
matters most. It is about becoming what God created you to be.
How, then, do you discover the purpose you were created for?
You have only two options. Your first option is speculation. This is
what most people choose. They conjecture, they guess, they
theorize. When people say, “I’ve
always thought life is . . . ,” they
mean, “This is the best guess I can
come up with.”
For thousands of years, brilliant
philosophers have discussed and
speculated about the meaning of
life. Philosophy is an important
subject and has its uses, but when it comes to determining the
purpose of life, even the wisest philosophers are just guessing.
Dr. Hugh Moorhead, a philosophy professor at Northeastern
Illinois University, once wrote to 250 of the best-known
philosophers, scientists, writers, and intellectuals in the world,asking them, “What is the meaning of life?” He then published
their responses in a book. Some offered their best guesses, some
admitted that they just made up a purpose for life, and others
were honest enough to say they were clueless. In fact, a number
of famous intellectuals asked Professor Moorhead to write back
and tell them if he discovered the purpose of life!4
Fortunately, there is an alternative to speculation about the
meaning and purpose of life. It’s revelation. We can turn to what
God has revealed about life in his Word. The easiest way to
discover the purpose of an invention is to ask the creator of it.
The same is true for discovering your life’s purpose: Ask God.
God has not left us in the dark to wonder and guess. He has
clearly revealed his five purposes for our lives through the Bible.
It is our Owner’s Manual, explaining why we are alive, how life
works, what to avoid, and what to expect in the future. It explains
what no self-help or philosophy book could know. The Bible says,
“God’s wisdom . . . goes deep into the interior of his purposes. . . . It’s
not the latest message, but more like the oldest—what
God determined as the way to bring out his best in us.” 5
God is not just the starting point of your life; he is
the source of it. To discover your purpose in life you
must turn to God’s Word, not the world’s wisdom.
You must build your life on eternal truths, not pop
psychology, success-motivation, or inspirational
stories. The Bible says, “It’s in Christ that we find out who we are
and what we are living for. Long before we first heard of Christ and
got our hopes up, he had his eye on us, had designs on us for glorious
living, part of the overall purpose he is working out in everything
and everyone.” 6 This verse gives us three insights into your
purpose.
1. You discover your identity and purpose through a
relationship with Jesus Christ. If you don’t have such a
relationship, I will later explain how to begin one.2. 2. God was thinking of you long before you ever thought
about him. His purpose for your life predates your
conception. He planned it before you
existed, without your input! You may
choose your career, your spouse, your
hobbies, and many other parts of
your life, but you don’t get to choose
your purpose.
3. The purpose of your life fits into a much
larger, cosmic purpose that God has designed for
eternity. That’s what this book is about.
Andrei Bitov, a Russian novelist, grew up under an atheistic
Communist regime. But God got his attention one dreary day.
He recalls, “In my twenty-seventh year, while riding the metro in
Leningrad (now St. Petersburg) I was overcome with a despair so
great that life seemed to stop at once, preempting the future
entirely, let alone any meaning. Suddenly, all by itself, a phrase
appeared: Without God life makes no sense. Repeating it in
astonishment, I rode the phrase up like a moving staircase, got
out of the metro and walked into God’s light.”7
You may have felt in the dark about your purpose in life.
Congratulations, you’re about to walk into the light.
Day One
Thinking about My Purpose
Point to Ponder: It’s not about me.
Verse to Remember: “Everything got started in him
and finds its purpose in him.” Colossians 1:16b (Msg)
Question to Consider: In spite of all the advertising
around me, how can I remind myself that life is really
about living for God, not myself?
possess and the uniqueness of your personality. The Bible says,
“You know me inside and out, you know every bone in my body; You
know exactly how I was made, bit by bit, how I was sculpted from
nothing into something.” 2
Because God made you for a reason, he also decided when you
would be born and how long you would live. He planned the days
of your life in advance, choosing the exact time of your birth and
death. The Bible says, “You saw me before I was born and scheduled
each day of my life before I began to breathe. Every day was recorded
in your Book!” 3
God also planned where you’d be born and where you’d live for
his purpose. Your race and nationality are no accident. God left
no detail to chance. He planned it all for his purpose. The Bible
says, “From one man he made every nation, . . . and he determined
the times set for them and the exact places where they should live.” 4
Nothing in your life is arbitrary. It’s all for a purpose.
Most amazing, God decided how you would be born.
Regardless of the circumstances of your birth or who your parents
are, God had a plan in creating you. It doesn’t matter whether
your parents were good, bad, or indifferent. God knew that those
two individuals possessed exactly the right genetic makeup to
create the custom “you” he had in mind. They had the DNA God
wanted to make you.
While there are illegitimate parents, there are no illegitimate
children. Many children are
unplanned by their parents, but
they are not unplanned by God.
God’s purpose took into account
human error, and even sin.
God never does anything
accidentally, and he never makes
mistakes. He has a reason for
everything he creates. Every plant and every animal was planned
by God, and every person was designed with a purpose in mindGod’s motive for creating you was his love. The Bible says, “Long
before he laid down earth’s foundations, he had us in mind, had
settled on us as the focus of his love.” 5
God was thinking of you even before he made the world. In
fact, that’s why he created it! God designed this planet’s
environment just so we could live in it. We are the focus of his
love and the most valuable of all his creation. The Bible says,
“God decided to give us life through the word of truth so we might be
the most important of all the things he made.” 6 This is how much
God loves and values you!
God is not haphazard; he planned it all with great precision.
The more physicists, biologists, and other scientists learn about
the universe, the better we understand how it is uniquely suited
for our existence, custom-made with the exact specifications that
make human life possible.
Dr. Michael Denton, senior research fellow in human
molecular genetics at the University of Otago in New Zealand,
has concluded, “All the evidence available in the biological
sciences supports the core proposition . . . that the cosmos is a
specially designed whole with life and mankind as its
fundamental goal and purpose, a whole in which all facets of
reality have their meaning and explanation in this
central fact.”7 The Bible said the same thing
thousands of years earlier: “God formed the
earth. . . . He did not create it to be empty
but formed it to be inhabited.” 8
Why did God do all this? Why did he
bother to go to all the trouble of creating a
universe for us? Because he is a God of love. This kind of love is
difficult to fathom, but it’s fundamentally reliable. You were
created as a special object of God’s love! God made you so he
could love you. This is a truth to build your life on.
The Bible tells us, “God is love.” 9 It doesn’t say God has love.
He is love! Love is the essence of God’s character. There is perfectlove in the fellowship of the Trinity, so God didn’t need to create
you. He wasn’t lonely. But he wanted to make you in order to
express his love. God says, “I have carried you since
you were born; I have taken care of you from your
birth. Even when you are old, I will be the same. Even
when your hair has turned gray, I will take care of
you. I made you and will take care of you.” 10
If there was no God, we would all be
“accidents,” the result of astronomical random
chance in the universe. You could stop reading this book, because
life would have no purpose or meaning or significance. There
would be no right or wrong, and no hope beyond your brief years
here on earth.
But there is a God who made you for a reason, and your life
has profound meaning! We discover that meaning and purpose
only when we make God the reference point of our lives. The
Message paraphrase of Romans 12:3 says, “The only accurate
way to understand ourselves is by what God is and by what he does
for us.”
This poem by Russell Kelfer sums it up:
You are who you are for a reason.
You’re part of an intricate plan.
You’re a precious and perfect unique design,
Called God’s special woman or man.
You look like you look for a reason.
Our God made no mistake.
He knit you together within the womb,
You’re just what he wanted to make.
The parents you had were the ones he chose,
And no matter how you may feel,
They were custom-designed with God’s plan in mind,
And they bear the Master’s seal. Thanks to reading
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